How To Spice Up Your Sex Life!


We can all get a little bored sometimes of the same routine when it comes to having sex with your partner, but there are elements within a relationship that can help you to spice up your sex life.


Certain foods are well known to increase your sex drive and mood; chocolate, oysters, figs, tomatoes and asparagus are classed as an aphrodisiac; in other words stimulate certain parts of the brain that cause you to be excited sexually due to sugar, vitamins and the look. Just think about peeling back a fig – for men this resembles a woman’s vagina, chocolate gives you a boost of sugar and stimulates the brain, oysters also resemble the opening of a woman’s vagina and tomatoes are a sexy red color. Experts say that visual is a key element when it comes to sexual pleasure! This is fantastic news for both you and your partner.

If you’re a little more adventurous, why not try edible and flavored sauces specially made for the bedroom? There are lots of different flavors out there, so if you and your partner don’t like the same flavors, get two or three different tasting ones! This will drive your partner wild in excitement.

Try out New Sex Positions

Why not just try one or two sex positions that will not only turn you on, but also your partner for the suggestion! One position that is easy to do that you may not have tried before is to put a pillow or two (whichever you like most – try them both) under your backside and let your partner enter you from the missionary position. You will have an even deeper feeling as your partner enters you from a deeper angle, which will give you an even greater orgasm.

If you have tried the pillow and looking for something a little more adventurous, why not try the standing against a wall position? If your partner is strong enough that is – if not try getting him against the wall and have a steamy and passionate kiss and let things follow from there.

Sit on your partners lap and slowly kiss and caress one another whilst looking into one another’s eyes – even if they are watching their favorite program, trust me your partner will put you first and spontaneity is key here.

Sensual Tips

There are so many other things that you can do to spice up your sex life in addition to trying new sex positions and food.

Go Slower

If you don’t fell like being adventurous or want to try anything new, just go along with your normal sex routine, but with a little twist; go slower, much slower. This will get you both very horny and sexually attracted to one another and what happens next will be explosive, believe me.


Send your partner a saucy or naughty text message whilst they’re at work; say anything you want, one example being don’t work too hard cause you’ll need all of your energy for later. All day, your partner will be thinking about what is going to happen all day, once they are home.

Sensual Massage

Why do many people dream of having a massage and even pay to have an all over body massage? Well it’s because they are so sensual and pleasurable therefore, just spare a bit of time on one rubbing massage oil into one another, but remember try to take it I turns, if you can hold out that long that is.

Setting the Perfect Romantic Scene

No you don’t have to go buy a load of roses to set a romantic and sensual scene for you and your partner – why not try putting your best linen and covers on your bed, have a few cushions and light some candles. If you’re feeling really romantic, have a bath together and lay in each others arms – make sure the lighting is right; candles and dim/no lights is a very sensual scene. Even if you don’t think your partner is sensual or romantic, try it and see.

Sam is a sex industry expert and knows all about facts and history of sex toys for men and women.